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I was laid off. Now what?

Have you recently been laid off, or do you fear it’s coming?

Losing your job can feel like a major setback—it often brings feelings of fear, grief, rejection, and uncertainty.

I’ve been there. It’s a frustrating, destabilizing experience, and it’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed.

The truth is, this isn’t the end—it’s the start of something new.


This isn’t the end—it’s the start of something new.


As difficult as this moment may seem, you have the power to move forward. With the right mindset and strategy, you can navigate this transition successfully and find an even better opportunity that better aligns with your goals.

In this post, we’ll cover:

  • Why layoffs happen and what they mean for your career
  • How to prepare for a layoff before you’re laid off
  • What steps to take immediately after being laid off
  • How to turn this setback into an opportunity

Why Was I Laid Off? Understanding the Bigger Picture

For the company, layoffs are a business decision, not a personal one.

Executives and senior managers spend months analyzing budgets, strategic goals, and workforce needs. As a result, they make financial and organizational decisions based on shifting priorities. At some point, they may decide to reduce positions to free resources for other priorities.

The key takeaway? This is not about you.

Companies lay off employees to cut costs or realign resources. Your skills, work ethic, or contributions aren’t in question—this is a corporate decision, not a reflection of your worth.

How to prepare for a layoff before you’re laid off

Layoffs can happen at any time, and will likely occur without prior notice to you.

These are among the things to do to ensure you will be prepared in the event you’re laid off:

  • Have a box or bags that your personal effects are in, so you can easily grab everything when they notify you and walk you out. People who “move in” inevitably lose personal items because they’re not thorough in the embarrassment, guilt, shame, and panic of a security guard or boss hovering while they follow instructions to “get your things out of your desk” before they’re escorted through the guarded turnstiles to the building’s main exit doors.
  • Connect with fellow employees on LinkedIn — while you’re employed and you remember their names, and before you’re gone, and some of them grow icy because of the discomfort of connecting with someone who’s “no longer one of us.”
  • If you have corporate apps on your own phone via a BYOD (Bring Your Own Device) policy — backup your phone and delete the company apps or you risk loss of your own data and photos when they wipe the.corporate apps.
  • Use any remaining benefits before you lose them:
    • Recognition rewards and gift accounts
    • FSA account balance
    • Medical and dental benefits (they usually last through the end of the final month of service)
  • Login to your company health insurance portal, so you know you’re able to access it outside the corporate network.
  • Log in to your company’s payroll portal, so you know you can access your W-2 and pay stubs from outside the corporate network.
  • Login to your company’s 401k portal, so you know you’re able to access it outside the corporate network.

Avoid These Common Mistakes After a Layoff

Many job seekers unknowingly make mistakes that cause stress and delay their next opportunity. Here’s what not to do:

a) Ignoring your finances — Be sure you have a runway for stability as you embark on this new adventure.

b) Ignoring your insurance policies and healthcare plans — An uninsured illness or injury can be catastrophic. Understand and replace the protection that you lost in the layoff.

c) Rushing into Job Applications Without a Plan – Sending out random applications without focusing on the right roles leads to rejection and frustration. Take time to be strategic about your next move.

d) Not Grieving and Taking Care of Your Mental Health – A layoff can affect your confidence and motivation. It’s important to give yourself space to process the change, recover your positive mindset, and set realistic goals.

e) Inaction — Don’t freeze in fear or uncertainty, then do nothing.

See more details below about each of the above:


Go from:

  • Frustration to confidence.
  • Reactive to strategic.
  • Confusion to clarity.

1. Manage Your Finances

  1. Check your severance package and review any payouts, health benefits, or transition support. Have your severance agreement reviewed by an attorney. For $40 a month, a LegalShield attorney will review an agreement for no additional cost.
  2. Submit any remaining expense reports to the company.
  3. File for unemployment benefits immediately to avoid delays in processing.
  4. Adjust your budget by prioritizing essential expenses and reducing unnecessary costs.

2. Arrange for new insurance where you require it:

  1. Health
  2. Life (Talk to La Intuitive Financiera first)
  3. Legal Plan
  4. Disability
  5. Accidental Death

3. Update Your Resume and LinkedIn Profile

  1. Revise your resume to highlight recent achievements and relevant skills.
  2. Enhance your LinkedIn profile with updated work experience and career objectives.
  3. Stay active on LinkedIn by engaging with role-specific industry content and networking with people and recruiters who are associated with your role or industry.

Avoid losing time, interviews, and financial opportunities. Ensure that your resume makes them want to hire you from day one.

You’re losing $500 every day you’re unemployed. A resume checkup will save you weeks or months of lost time in your job hunt.

Schedule a Strategy Call, and see how we can help you validate that your resume and LinkedIn profile will attract recruiters and hiring managers before they meet you.

We guarantee that you’ll get interviews and offers. We’ll work with you until you start work and beyond.


4. Set Clear Career Goals

a) Decide whether to continue in your current industry or transition into a new one.
b) Identify any skill gaps and consider taking courses or certifications to improve your qualifications.
c) Establish a structured job search plan with specific companies and roles you want to target.

5. Take Thoughtful Action

Even doing nothing is a choice. Fortune favors the bold. While it’s true that this time may feel overwhelming, uncertain, and frightening, help is available.


Not sure where to start? Let us help you work through your concerns, create a plan, and confidently get into action on your most important priorities.

Schedule a free clarity call today.


Case Study: Turning a Layoff into Career Growth

After being laid off from a unicorn tech startup, Vivi Shin faced an unexpected career crossroads. Rather than letting uncertainty take over, she turned the situation into a chance for growth. Vivi took time to reflect on her career goals, identified areas for skill enhancement, and pursued roles that aligned with her passions. Her proactive approach led her to a new position with a significant salary increase, demonstrating that resilience and self-assessment can turn a layoff into a catalyst for professional advancement.

Lesson: Embracing a layoff as an opportunity for self-improvement and clarity can lead to unexpected and rewarding career paths.

Source: UX Planet


Overcome uncertainty, confusion, and a lack of direction by scheduling a strategy session.

In this two-hour coaching session, we’ll define your priorities, set a clear direction, and craft a plan to achieve your top goals.

Schedule a strategy session today. Recover your confidence and clarity of purpose in a supportive, encouraging, powerful coaching call.

Because of the time required for these calls, the number of strategy sessions is limited. Schedule today.


Transforming Setbacks into Opportunities

While a layoff is challenging, it also offers a chance to realign your career with your passions and strengths. By taking deliberate steps and leveraging your network, you can navigate this transition successfully.

Need personalized guidance and a holistic job search strategy? Schedule a free consultation to develop a tailored plan for your career advancement.

Don’t navigate this transition alone—let’s create a career game plan tailored to your goals.

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